So, all I see everytime I look around when out and about is a baby / toddler. IT seems that everyone is drinking the water. Now, I am no where near ready or in a relationship to have a baby, but it kind of makes me want one all the more. I have this itching. Now, I have always told my parents, when I am ready to have a baby, I am going to the sperm bank. Seems right to me. I mean, why should I not, if I can finanically support me plus a baby and give it the best, then why shoudn’t I. Now, you might say bringing a baby by choice into single parenthood id wrong, but I can give that child just as much love as two parents would. Single parenthood isn’t always wrong and I hate it when people judge other b/c they choose that life for themself. I mean if I am capable of supporting and giving it the best emotionally and physically, then what does it matter to others. Some two parents household do good enough to raise a child well and two parents are not always the best.
So, I say to you, indeed I hope there comes a day when I find the man of my dreams, get married and then we start a family, but if not ….. Looks like it is the sperm bank for me.
Jenn, I’m sure you’ll find the guy someday. That’s the hard part! And to be honest, everyone has a different method! I don’t think going to a sperm bank is wrong, nor would I ever tell anyone not to do it. I’m SURE that you can give a child enough love for it to grow and flourish. I know for me, I would rather have my mum love me, than be in a family that could function just as well on its own. And I’m greatful to my mum for how she brings us up and I know that she’s doing a way better job [Excellent might I add
] than my dad would ever do! And I could say the same for some single dads!
I know that one day, sooner or later, you’re going to decide what suits you best. And no one should judge, because I know you’ll make an amazing mum. AMAZING. <3